The Myth of the Silver Spoon

THE MYTH OF THE SILVER SPOON:

Navigating Family Wealth & Creating an Impactful Life

by Kristin Keffeler, MSM, MAPP
Foreword by Sharna Goldseker
Hardcover, 256 pages; Nov 2022; list price: $30.00

Offering surprising new research, perspective-shifting concepts, and insightful storytelling drawn from the author’s life as the daughter of wealth-creating parents and her years coaching and advising the next generation within high-net-worth families, The Myth of the Silver Spoon is a compassionate yet practical guide to navigating the challenges of family wealth. 

Learn how to identify and clear the forms of “clutter”—negative narratives and behavioral patterns around money, relationships, self-identity, and contribution to others—that typically accumulate from growing up in an affluent family. Discern where your sincere ambitions lie on the path to creating an authentically joyful and impactful life. And the important, positive role that family, friends, and professional advisors can play in this journey.

KRISTIN KEFFELER, MSM, MAPP, is a thought leader, writer, and speaker at the forefront of a global shift in family wealth advising, known as Wealth 3.0. As a consultant, she guides affluent and enterprising families, rising gen, and the professionals who support them in embracing the positive power of wealth and doing the “inner work” of money. Her recent publishing credits include Harvard Business Review, Trusts and Estates Magazine, and the publication of her research on the University of Pennsylvania’s Scholarly Commons.

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The next generation within wealthy families are often said to be born with a silver spoon in their mouths. Perceived as free from life’s toughest challenges. “Having it all.” But being raised in affluence brings a unique set of pressures and hidden tripwires. Great wealth casts a long shadow. Inheritors commonly face intense familial expectations, public scrutiny and judgment, and confusing or debilitating self-narratives, under which many flounder. Kristin Keffeler’s The Myth of the Silver Spoon helps guide the next gen of the affluent, their families, and the ecosystem of professionals who influence them—wealth advisors, estate attorneys, tax attorneys, philanthropic advisors, family office professionals, and career coaches—to identify and confront negative thinking and behaviors related to wealth and money.

You will learn to:

  • Explore the difference between “money” vs “wealth” & your relationship with each.

  • Put words to your difficulties and dismantle the hidden tripwires of affluence.

  • Address challenges at their root, including when raising children of your own, instilling guardrails against entitlement and feelings of helplessness.

  • Gain a 7-step process for clearing the inner & outer “clutter” (nonessentials) that have likely become familiar stumbling blocks to you.

  • Identify structures for finding and sustaining your own vision of a fulfilling, impactful life.

  • Apply first-of-its-kind research that helps you identify how you can grow the character traits and skills that are the fuel for long-term thriving.

Privately held wealth has great potential to benefit society. But only if it is held by people able and willing to do good with it. The Myth of the Silver Spoon offers a compassionate discussion and a seven-step process for connecting a rising gen’s innate strengths to the embers of their hopes so that they can move forward creating thriving and impactful lives.

  • Endorsements

    “Kristin’s wonderful book takes the proper meaning of wealth and applies it, using the tools of positive psychology, to enable the journeys of the rising generation members of financially significant families to achieve their individual well beings.”

    - James (Jay) E. Hughes, Jr. Esq., innovator and thought leader in the field of intergenerational family wealth, author of Family Wealth: Keeping it in the Family

  • Endorsements

    “Kristin Keffeler’s book has, simply put, so much wisdom . . . . From every page, her encouraging voice and solid advice speak clearly to this often—disdained population. You will be more than inspired—you will be energized.”

    - James Grubman, PhD, consultant to families of wealth, family offices, and their advisors; and author of Strangers in Paradise: How Families Adapt to Wealth across Generations

  • Endorsements

    “Wealth and inheritance are a challenge for a lucky minority, but their path in life is complex and challenging even with their privilege. The Myth of the Silver Spoon is a refreshing journey for inheritors and their family about how to unravel, nurture, and pursue one’s life purpose when your choices are infinite.”

    - Dennis T. Jaffe, PhD, an early architect of the field of family enterprise consulting, clinical psychologist, and author of Borrowed from Your Grandchildren: The Evolution of 100-Year Family Enterprises

  • Endorsements

    “As an inheritor and parent of two rising gen, with twenty years of professional experience working with families of wealth . . . it was so healing to see my own feelings compassionately reflected in these narratives. I appreciated that this book is grounded in positive psychology research, offering actionable steps towards mindset and behavior change . . . ”

    - Jamie Traeger-Muney, PhD, family wealth consultant, founder of Wealth Legacy Group, and second-generation family business owner

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